How to get a girl to like you

Are you a guy in the situation where there is a girl that you like..but she doesn’t really like you in that way?

Maybe you’ve known her for a while, hung out, are friends..but you have feelings for her that aren’t reciprocated? Maybe you’ve had a look online at various dating advice about the things men seeking women do but are unsure?

Perhaps the whole ‘science’ of dating girls is a little daunting or seems like ‘manipulation’…and you are stuck at that indecision point of will I do it or not. Or maybe you just lack the motivation.

Okay, questions over. In this post I’m going to give you a single tip that you should do in the next 7 days (or more if you like) that will begin the process of making that girl like you more. Now it is not magic, but it can seem that way.

If you don’t do it then you’ll be stuck in the frustrating ‘let’s just be friends’ zone indefinitely or until fate steps in, which could be never. I admit, It does happen. People grow to fancy each other but honestly it is better if you can influence fate a bit. Pull cupid’s bow, so to speak…

So what is this tip about and where did it come from? Well, if you read my About page, one of the things I have learned in life is how to attract women better. I learned this by getting dating advice. I was sufficiently motivated to learn and I’m a bit of a doer when it comes to new things so I practised. I still do.
I’ve learned this through my career so far that a lot of what we do is ‘safe’ in our own little worlds and we don’t really take the risks we should. We also try and believe that there are ‘naturals’ who just know and we will never get to be like this. Well, you may have your own opinions, and these are beyond this post. All I am proposing is that you do what I am about to tell you, purely to see what effect is has. Then you can make up your own mind.

So an important point: The tip is not dating advice per say

No I like to deal with absolute basics. I think it’s a worthy thing to do. It also helps provide some misdirection for you guys, because you won’t be thinking about getting the girl to like you. You’ll be doing something else.

Okay, here is the tip and like I said it is not about dating girls:

Starting today, when you are with this girl, or when you are just out and about, have a 5 minute general conversation with someone else

Now don’t be rude and just start talking to other people when you are with her. Time it correctly. Do talk and be social and spend about 50% more time doing this. The first few times may seem a bit forced but that’s just because you are starting to build the habit.

Do this for the next 7 days. Have 5 conversations if you like. If not then have one at least. It can be with anyone, it doesn’t have to be a woman, but it helps a bit because it will focus her attention.

What she will see, is you being more social and spending less of your attention on her. Which strangely enough will make her work a little bit harder to maintain yours. Now you can push it a lot, but that may seem a bit unethical. You don’t have to. Just a five minute conversation and you’ll see that pretty soon she’ll ask you what you were talking about. Now you don’t have to answer directly. You can just say it was ‘just stuff’! Because it probably was.

Okay, got it? Talk to at least another person, 5 is recommended, each day for the next 7 days. Start now. You don’t have to always be with her to talk to people. Just take the initiative and talk.

And what you will be looking for is how her attitude changes to you. Don’t be surprised if she calls you a bit more or wants to hang out more….but that’s for another day!

Good Luck
Micky

PS If you have a lot of luck with this then I would recommend you try the dating advice for men.